Wednesday 12 August 2009

Would you date an ugly man?


Women have you ever dated an ugly man?!?!? I hate the term UGLY it is so harsh! I would rather say unattractive, like that makes much difference. I just think it sounds a bit nicer than ugly- whoo! I used the picture of Shrek as an example as I didn’t want to offend anybody and he is cute in a troll like way? (side-eye).

I was watching GMTV this morning and one of the guests were saying that women do not go for ugly guys. He even went as far to wear a paper bag over his head to support his statement, for all we know he could have looked like Brad Pitt under there. Anywhoo it got me thinking about the kind of men we all go for. I know many of my girlfriends like the model, pretty boy looks type, but I tend to go for the average looking guy (whatever that is). Plus the fact that I’ve convinced myself that fine men only exist in the states (I really need to let this way of thinking go) but can you honestly say that if Craig Mack stepped to you in a club and offered to buy you a drink your heart would skip a beat, I think not!!!!!!!!!

I know we are not all that shallow that we only date model type men but you still want to be attracted too him right?!?!? Yes it’s all about the personality I get it, and more than likely the guy you spend the rest of your life with, will be some one you least expected. I’m sure we would all rather have a man that treats us like a queen and looks like your average Joe than a Tyson Beckford look alike who treats us like poo right? Or maybe we have succumbed to the fact that good looking men are non-existent, are too much hard work or that women are gonna be constantly trying to push up on him – BACK OFF!!!!!!!!!! I don’t know help a sister out here, what is deemed as ugly anyway?

2 comments:

Matilda Egere-Cooper said...

If Craig Mack stepped to you in the right way, you would look twice.

IMO, Men are more into looks, women are more into personality.

Dude can look like T Beckford, but if he can't spit the correct game, he could easily be butters.

queenofsheba said...

Looks are such a subjective thing that its really impossible to say if someone is 'unattractive', personally Tyson does nothing for me looks wise but he prob has a shining personality that could win me over...looks are obviously what you are initially drawn to when you first meet someone but a bad personality will put you off in a heartbeat

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